This conversation began when some campers were touching a staff of color’s hair without permission despite being repeatedly asked not to. The group began a discussion about different types of hair and culture. We tell our campers that any touching of hair, holding hands, hugging, etc. should not be done without consent. For people of color and particularly folks of African or Latino descent, this is considered a big “no-no.” The freedom that some folks feel to touch folks of color without permission is a big problem in our society. While we respect the curiosity of children, we also teach respectful touch and boundaries.
The conversation turned into a talk about “Black People.” Some of the things that were said were:
“Black People are from Portland.” (Why I love working with elementary age kids!)
“Black People are from Africa.”
“How did Black People Get here?”
“Are all White People bad?”
“Does Slavery still happen today?”
“Are White People still taking the Brown People?”
“Why are white people not taken by Brown People?”
The counselors talked about people taken from Africa against their will and brought to work without pay. They explained privilege and talked about people with power taking others’ bodies without asking. They also talked about being an ally and what that means. At one point a camper made a joke about a brown stick and a piece of paper. The counselors explained that this is not a joking matter and that this was a serious conversation.
Peace,
Polly
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